Sometimes as women we aren't told to date men on our level. Sometimes we aren't able to have higher standards because as women we should just deal with whatever. Why is it that men can have trophy wives and strive to have the best looking woman? As woman we should be able to say no! We may be seen as "bougie" or having standards that are too high but that's okay, we should be allowed to hold ourselves to a higher value. It isn't wrong to want a man who is has a degree, who is financially stable and has a future. As soon as women start noticing their value then some of us may not feel regret or feel bad for ending up in a bad situation in the future. I'm not saying that some of the men with our ideal standards won't be a problem, I'm just saying we can have those ideals without feeling bad.
Here's a link to 6 things that women may accept from a man who aren't at their "level"
http://madamenoire.com/175038/you-can-do-better-your-standards-are-too-low-if-you-accept-these-6-things/
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